{"id":504,"date":"2026-06-22T23:49:55","date_gmt":"2026-06-22T14:49:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/zawameki.org\/blog2\/?p=504"},"modified":"2026-06-22T23:58:32","modified_gmt":"2026-06-22T14:58:32","slug":"develop-a-thick-skin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/zawameki.org\/blog2\/2026\/06\/develop-a-thick-skin\/","title":{"rendered":"Develop a thick skin"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I&#8217;m feeling the need to develop a thicker skin more and more, day by day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">At work, I must say what I believe is right, and it needs to be said.<br>I need to keep repeating the right things until they are understood.<br>And that can be tough.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If I&#8217;m too delicate and sensitive, I might give up on raising tough questions.<br>But my position doesn&#8217;t allow me to do so.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I shouldn&#8217;t care about others&#8217; reactions too much in those cases.<br>I need to be numb, or sort of a psychopath.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This is also important for being a father and a reliable husband.<br>This is because the most important thing is to ensure that the right and required things are done.<br>Worrying and overthinking will only hinder me from taking action.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The challenging part is that it&#8217;s not easily controlled since it&#8217;s tied to our emotion.<br>Emotion is uncontrollable.<br>That&#8217;s why some people suffer from depression due to stress.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There are no clear answers for this type of reflection.<br>It&#8217;s up to me, and it&#8217;s my life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">On the other hand, I also feel that living one&#8217;s own life is not so difficult.<br>After all, we are forced to live our own lives, with or without hoping for it, like most people living in modern society.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m feeling the need to develop a thicker skin more and more, day by day. At work, I must say what I bel<a class=\"more-link\" href=\"http:\/\/zawameki.org\/blog2\/2026\/06\/develop-a-thick-skin\/\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-504","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-1"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/zawameki.org\/blog2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/504","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/zawameki.org\/blog2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/zawameki.org\/blog2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/zawameki.org\/blog2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/zawameki.org\/blog2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=504"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/zawameki.org\/blog2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/504\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":507,"href":"http:\/\/zawameki.org\/blog2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/504\/revisions\/507"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/zawameki.org\/blog2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=504"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/zawameki.org\/blog2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=504"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/zawameki.org\/blog2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=504"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}