Daughter-2

Even at my age, still I can learn.
I would say,  still I can notice basic stuff.

Someone’s common practice, way of thinking, attitude, and habit can be uncommon for others.

Putting the garbage into the trash can is very common for me.
Hence I force family members to do so based on my common sense.
However, the older daughter is not able to follow the guidance and suggestions.

This is a gap in the norm for each.
No one is guaranteed as correct in the subjective world.
Everyone is correct in their world with their standard.

If other world’s standard is pushed forcefully, it can be a reason for depression.

This is what I could learn from my elder daughter.

Daughter

The older daughter is now 11 and will enter the 6th grade of elementary school.

She is also going to a private tutor(cram school).
The objective is to try to go to a private junior high school.

But she doesn’t do self-study proactively.
Even with our suggestion, she is not willing to study.

Going to a private junior high school is not mandatory.
It’s her choice and if we force her to study hard, it will spoil her life.

Even with that consideration, she has some problems due to her sensitive age.
If I suggest she quit private tutoring school, she refuses.
But she doesn’t spend enough time for study.

Our ultimate objective is to let her live happily.
That’s for sure.